List of (un)probabilities.

100 goals or what you need to do in life.

I sometimes read books. In one of them, the writer recommended making a list of improbabilities, deeds, desires and goals. You need to write everything that comes to your mind, even if it is unlikely.

I, as a typical user, decided to find a ready-made list on the Internet, because it’s difficult to come up with it on my own. I liked some ideas, but they were few. So I had no choice but to spend a day and write down my ideas and dreams, as well as simply incredible things.

Below you can see the items on my list, maybe you also like something. I will say right away that this list is periodically updated, and imagination develops. I hope some points come true, and I wish the same for you!

1. Go on vacation in winter 2018(winter 2018)

2. Stop jumping from job to job, find something you like

3. Jump on trampolines

4. Fly in a wind tunnel

5. Fly a fighter jet

6. Fly a helicopter

7. Explore the world

8. Live abroad for a year

9. Meet a Hollywood “star” in real life

10. Fly on hang gliding

11. Skydive

12. Scuba dive

13. Swim with dolphins

14. See the Northern Lights

15. Ride a dog sled

16. Take part in archaeological excavations

17. Dive to the site where the Titanic sank

18. Create

19. Love yourself

20. To keep my shares from increased in price

21. Buy an apartment and a house

22. Sit on the roof of the tallest building

24. Earn your first million at once

25. Visit Canada

26. Visit a carnival in Brazil

27. Climb Everest

28. Visit Austria, feed the kangaroos

29. Steer a yacht

30. Visit Japan

31. Be healthy and happy

32. So that my family is close, my parents don’t get sick

33. Stop being shy

34. Learn to do pull-ups

35. Get your body in order, figure the way I like it

36. Write and publish a book

37. Learn to play the guitar

38. Celebrate Halloween in America

39. Live in the forest for a month, eat what nature provides (with friends, not alone)

40. Learn English and Spanish perfectly.

41. View the earth from a hot air balloon

42. Perform in front of an audience of more than 100 people

43. Swim on Lake Baikal, live in Siberia for a week or two

44. Plant trees

45. Fly a kite

46. ​​Cross desert on camel

47. Visit the castles of the world

48. Learn sign language to better understand people

49. Star in a movie

50. Visit Jerusalem

51. Help people and animals

52. Visit Disneyland in the USA (I’ve already been to Paris)

53. Go on a Eurotour

55. Take a photo with a smiling sloth

56. To make my parents proud of me

57. Spend a weekend at the spa(January 2018)

58. See 7 wonders of the world live

59. Learn to snowboard(winter 2018)

60. Learn to surf

61. Ride a horse along the coast

62. Rent a fast car and drive all day.

63. Start a family and children (when the time comes)

64. Get a tattoo (from July to December 2018)

65. Write a 100 list of achievements (just started, just a few points)

66. Go to some training

67. Visit the Grand Canyon

68. Take a photo with Big Ben in the background

69. Visit "Scarlet Sails" in St. Petersburg

70. Visit Oktoberfest in Munich

71. Learn 30 signature dishes

72. Learn to become a veterinarian

73. Volunteer to go to foreign reserves and help animals

74. Travel around Russia. See cities, architecture and nature.

75. Learn to dance (3 styles)

76. Make repairs, change furniture(autumn 2017)

77. Launch sky lanterns

78. Ride a Ferris wheel at night (August 2018)

79. Watch horror in the cinema

80. Walk along the Great Wall

81. Ride a motorcycle on the highway

82. Ride a jet ski

83. Find good people who will help, support and keep you company

84. Leave a handprint on a building

85. Become an example for others

86. Become a mentor and find a mentor

87. Play paintball

88. Work out at the climbing wall

89. Watch the stars through a telescope

90. Visit Hollywood

91. Walk in the footsteps of Bulgakov, incl. "bad apartment"

92. Do a complete examination of the body

93. Donate blood (you need to improve your health for this)

94. Learn not to bother yourself over trifles and not to take everything to heart

95. Walk on a rope bridge

96. Walk across a glass bridge in China

97. Ride a mechanical bull

98. Travel 2 times a year

99. Take a photo 4 generations

100. Constantly add to this list (already 400 points and growing :)

Every person dreams of something. We always want something, and when we achieve it, we have a new desire. It is this property of each of us that does not allow the world to stand still; our innumerable demands contribute to the fact that every year humanity reaches a new level of development, the latest technologies, films, books, etc. appear. We want so much that sometimes we no longer know what wishes we can make in a certain situation.

We believe that when a star falls, you need to make a wish and it will definitely come true. We look at the sky, waiting for it to fall, and when this happens, we get lost and do not have time to formulate what we want. Dozens of different desires run through our heads at once, and we cannot quickly decide what is more priority for us.

Wishes for the New Year or Birthday

1. Health. So, decide what you want more than anything in the world? What can be put off until later, and what is needed right now? I mean, at this stage of life. Think about your health. After all, without it, in fact, nothing is nice to us. If you have any illness, during the New Year's chimes, or while blowing out the candles, wish to be cured of it.
2. Career growth. What about a career? Without money and self-realization, we cannot live a full life. Feel free to order wealth for yourself: a car, an apartment, a yacht, a treasure chest.
3. Love. Life is not only laughter, but also tears, it is both happiness and sorrow, and what feeling can bring together all the emotions inherent in human nature? Of course, love. Where would we be without her? Do you dream of meeting your soul mate? I know you are dreaming. So why shouldn’t such a good dream come true?
4. Friendship. If you don't have friends, don't hesitate to make a wish to find them. Believe me, they will not only brighten up your existence, but will also help in difficult situations.
5. Close ones. And be sure to not forget about your family and friends. You want your whole family to be healthy and not need anything?

So many wishes, isn't it? These are only the most basic and adequate of them. This suggests a conclusion - it is better to combine them into one basic desire, otherwise we simply will not have time to scroll through all this in our heads while the chimes are striking. Just think to yourself “I want to be happy” and mean all these aspects of life.

What if an ordinary person can fulfill a wish? A girl or guy who, for example, lost to you in a gambling game. So what wish can you make for the loser? Why will you fall into a stupor again, wondering what exactly to come up with? It is better to prepare for this course of events in advance.

How can you make a wish for a girl?

If a girl loses in some game or argument, the most interesting ideas pop into her head. Eg:

• Let him dance an intimate private dance. You can invite her to wear beautiful lingerie and surprise you in full.
• Romantic evening. If you are trying to establish a relationship with her, then it is better not to start with dancing. Ask her to arrange a dinner for two, choose her own menu and place for the meeting. She must turn on her imagination and make sure that you really like it.
• Date. Do you dream of making it yours? Now you have all the trump cards in your hands, invite her on a date, she won’t be able to get out, since, persuasion, is more valuable than money, and use your chance wisely. This should be the kind of date after which she herself will want to become yours, so in this case it will be you who surprises, not her.
• If your girlfriend has lost to you, you can ask her to quit a bad habit that you don't like. Of course, it’s not a fact that such a wish will come true, but it’s worth a try.
• Do you want to make fun? Tell her to serenade you, or write poetry in your honor.
• Well, if she is the love of your life, then shock her with a declaration of love and a marriage proposal. This is what they call playing games!

What wish can you make for a guy?

All the above desires are suitable for guys, except, I think, the last one. You shouldn’t ask him to marry you, it’s better to make a wish:

• Kiss! Delicate, strong and unforgettable,
• A gift. Beautiful, valuable, at his discretion.
• Swimming in the local fountain in the middle of the street or something like that.
• A service that you ask him to perform when you need it.

Make a wish as far as your imagination allows, but remember - the wish should not be humiliating, otherwise the game will turn into a quarrel.

Young people have fun in different ways, inventing more and more new fun. A very interesting game is when teenagers make various tasks and wishes for each other, trying to come up with something unusual and original.

Holiday

The actual question of what kind of wish can be made for a guy may be at the moment when a couple meets, and the man wants to please his girlfriend on a holiday, giving her the opportunity to make any of her wishes. What can a girl come up with in such a situation? One thing is clear: you should not test your boyfriend and wish him something impossible. If you want to receive some special gift, you should correctly calculate the guy’s material resources so as not to confuse him.

But the most interesting may be the reasoning about what kind of wish you can make to a guy on a bet when he has lost. Here you need to use your imagination and not limit its flight.

About love

When choosing what kind of wish you can make for a guy, it is worth considering an option that concerns the sphere of relationships with a young man. If a couple is dating, you can ask the guy for a dance in a thong (very interesting), or an erotic massage. You can ask your man to fulfill some erotic fantasy. It all depends on how close the couple is and whether they can afford such close contact.

Date

If the couple is not dating yet, and the girl likes the young man who lost the argument, you can ask him to go to the cinema, to the skating rink, or to eat ice cream together. Theoretically, this will not be a date, but already in an hour of such time together you can get close enough, learn something new about each other and, perhaps, even start a relationship.

Gaiety

What wish can you make for a guy if he is just a friend? There can also be a lot of options here. You can make him take a swim in the local fountain, shout something stupid throughout the street, order him to build a huge snowman out of snow or a mermaid out of sand. You can also test his creative talents and ask him to sing a song out loud or dance some unusual dance. Another option is to paint the guy’s toenails with multi-colored polish and force him not to wash it off for a couple of days; you can also give the young man makeup and ask him to walk down the street like that.

Couple relationships

If the couple has been dating for some time, there are also options for what kind of wish you can make for the guy. You can ask him to spend the whole weekend together, without getting out of bed, watching movies and eating popcorn, you can drag him into a movie with your beloved and make him sit through everything until the end. And if a young man who has a stable financial income loses, you can beg him for a romantic weekend trip, dinner in a good restaurant or a hot air balloon flight. There are still a huge number of ideas regarding what kind of wishes you can make, you just need to turn on your imagination and figure out what you really want to get from the losing young man.

Having not yet finished reading Sergei Kaplichny’s article “Lifelist: a hundred crazy things that I decided to do,” I already realized that this was exactly what I needed. Sergey is at home. I finally decided to put my desires in order and make sure they come true. I would say that this is more like a plan of 100 things that I would like to do this year or when I have time, because I’m still not a superman. Crazy or not, I stopped making a distinction between these words a long time ago.

As soon as I made the list, my wishes began to come true. Because of this, I completely disappeared for almost two months. One of my wishes came true. So be careful when you make wishes. About fulfilled wishes in the next post.

1. Move to live in another country.
2. Improve your English.
3. Jump from a cliff into a waterfall (not very high).

5. Go away alone for 2-3 days (no matter where or why).
6. Open your own online store.
7. Go ice skating.
8. Go to Moscow with the guys.
9. Buy a house on the seashore.
10. Start collecting comics.
11. Give yoga lessons.
12. Enroll in an oriental dance school and see if I like it.
13. Learn to fly a plane.
14. Completely update my wardrobe.

16. Stretch out on the hot sea sand and scream: I haven’t figured out what to scream yet.
17. Improve your French.
18. Take Lupita from the village and bring her to my home. (Lupita is my dog, who currently lives in the village).
19. Dance in the rain. Not naked, but in clothes.
20. Launch your own clothing line.
21. Create a shelter for homeless animals.
22. Ride the bungee and then jump from it into the river.
23. Fill an entire album with your drawings.
24. Travel by car across America.
25. Live 6 months in Moscow.
26. Go to China with the guys.
27. Buy a new surfboard.
28. Write a novel.
29. Walk around the city all day without a goal.
30. Fall in love.
31. Knit a sweater.
32. Learn to cook sushi, cakes and pastries.
33. Climb a very high mountain with your climbing friends. If you like it, take it seriously.
34. Go with the guys to Mexico.
35. Climb a mountain alone and watch the sunset.
36. Learn the language of the deaf and dumb.

38. Growing orchids, you can even sign up for a course on the topic.
39. Draw 10 T-shirts and give them to friends.
40. Create your own jewelry collection.
41. Jump with a parachute.
42. Launch flying lanterns with the guys, I don’t know what and how yet.
43. Learn to shoot a pistol like 007.
44. Ride in a hot air balloon.
45. Try paragliding.
46. ​​Take a boat down a mountain river.
47. See a volcano.
48. Plant a garden in front of my house.
50. Do a photo session like a real fashion model.
51. Learn horse riding.
52. Drive a racing car at a speed of 250 km per hour, or even more.
53. Do nothing for one day, think about nothing, just enjoy life.
54. Stay overnight in the Tatacoa Desert.
55. Buy an iPad and finally organize your music and listen to it.
56. Sunbathe naked.
57. Go to Las Vegas, hang out there and go to the casino.
58. Buy a large box of gum and chew it all at once.
59. Read one book a week, or more.
60. Get a tattoo.
61. Go to America to visit my friend and fool around all week.
62. Make my workshop in the house.
63. Open a hotel on the seashore.
64. Go to the cinema every week or watch a movie at home.
65. Celebrate the New Year in Santa Teresa.
66. Take a steam bath in a real Russian bathhouse, and then go out and fall into a snowdrift.
67. Bite off an icicle.
68. Go to a village near Moscow in winter and walk through a snow-covered forest.
69. Make a family tree of my family.
70. Meet an old friend and wander around Moscow with him.
71. Live in Hong Kong for a whole week, as if I had lived there forever.
72. Lie on the couch all day, watch all the episodes of The Walking Dead and eat pizza.
73. Pierce your ear in several places and hang earrings, or maybe your nose.
74.Learn to drive a motorcycle.

76. Kissing at the movies.
77. Say only YES for a whole week.
78. Try not to talk for a whole day, and if you succeed, then for a whole week!!!
79. Learn to make origami.
80. Learn to ride a bike without hands.
81. For a whole week, just sleep, eat and surf 8 hours a day.
82. Draw graffiti on the wall of some house.
83. Walk around the city in flip-flops.
84. Paint an oil painting.
85. Play a drum kit, and if you like it, buy it.
86. Do the splits.
87. Play the lottery and win 100 million dollars.
88. Fly an airplane out of the window.
89. Learn to shoot a bow.
90. Watch lucid dreams.
91. Glue together a very complex airplane model.
92. Assemble a puzzle of 10 thousand pieces.
93. Draw 10 postcards and send them to people I only know on the Internet.
94. Buy a special tablet for drawing on your computer and draw.
95. Plant a tree.
96. Grow your nails.
97. Raise money for a charitable cause.
98. Tell only the truth for a whole week.
99. Have a pajama party with the girls, and then with the boys.
100. Pump up your abs with confirmation in the form of a photograph.

And you know, this is not my entire list. I still have wishes left. But I'll leave them for later.

The essence of this idea is simple - create a list of goals, desires, ideas and the craziest dreams that you would like to fulfill and experiences that you would be interested in experiencing during the time allotted on Earth.

Why do you need a list

Think about the last few years of your life. A good friend of mine once correctly noted that we identify ourselves with our place of work and increasingly say WE- “we bought a quarry in South America”, “we bought 5 helicopters and 10 Mercedes”, “we increased revenue by 100 million dollars” and so on. But when you go deeper, you realize that no one traveled further than Ukraine, I only saw a helicopter in the air, and the maximum amount of money that I held in my hands was 1000 salary dollars.

It's time to understand what "I" is who wants to jump with a parachute, travel around the globe and do a dozen different stupid things that are embarrassing to tell children about. Remember yourself tired but happy when you accomplished something important. You relive the highlights of your life hundreds of hundreds of times in your head. Now imagine that you have a LIST of 100 items and you have promised yourself to implement about 3-5 items from this list every year. Just think how much happier you will become, how much new you will learn, how the psychological situation in the family will change. It will be just cool!

What to do in life

Everything is extremely simple and takes no more than 10-15 minutes per brainstorming session. Personally, I created a document on my computer desktop in which I write down my dreams and desires at certain intervals. I'm trying to understand what I want and how much this or that activity will make me happier.

To make the task of creating your list easier, I recommend answering the following questions:

• What would happen if you passed away tomorrow? What is the most important thing you would like to do today?
• What would you do if you had unlimited time, money and resources?
• What countries and places would you like to visit?
• What feelings would you like to experience?
• What moments would you like to witness?
• What is the most important thing on your personal scale of values ​​that you would like to achieve?
• What craft would you like to learn?
• Who would you like to meet in person?
• What would you like to achieve in different areas of your life (social, family, physical, spiritual)?

Refer to these questions as often as necessary to build your personal wish list. Take as much time as it takes. Read the list below for further inspiration.

101 things you can consider when creating your life to-do list

1. Travel around the globe

• Visit every country in the world
• Visit all the wonders of the world
• 1001 places you should see before you die

2. Learn a new language

3. Try a new profession in a completely unfamiliar field.

4. Achieve your ideal weight

5. Run a marathon

6. Take part in a triathlon

7. Take up some new sport. Here are some examples:

• Technical sports: archery, golf, bowling, skating, figure skating
• Water sports: kayaking, rafting, wakeboarding, diving, yachting, swimming

8. Go to the mountains and ski

9. Learn to ride a horse

10. Finally quit the job you hate.

11. Follow your dreams

12. Run your business doing what you love

13. Achieve financial independence through your passion.

14. Contact teachers from your past life (school, college) and thank them for the fact that they greatly influenced your life

15. Find out who inspired you the most and thank him/her for it

16. Become a mentor to someone who needs it

17. Learn to play a strategy game on the computer

18. Try yourself in an extreme sport - jumping from a bridge, skydiving, skydiving, etc.

19. Climb the mountain

20. Give someone a big surprise

21. Do something meaningful and important in someone's life.

22. Do something nice for 5 strangers without expecting or receiving anything in return.

23. Write a book about something important to you.

24. Travel in a hot air balloon

25. Sing your favorite song to a large audience.

26. Try yourself in a volunteer program

27. Make friends with at least 5 strangers on the street

28. Watch the sunrise

29. Watch the sunset

30. See the Northern Lights

31. Witness a solar eclipse

32. Fall asleep on the grass during a starfall

33. Plant your own tree and watch it grow

34. Get yourself a pet

35. Give a speech to a large audience

36. Write a letter to your closest friends and admit how important they are to you.

37. Throw a mega party

38. Completely change your style (hair, clothes, makeup)

39. Learn to appreciate the taste of wine

40. Take an etiquette class

41. Become a matchmaker - introduce friends and acquaintances to each other

42. Go on a blind date

43. Enter a university and completely radically change your major.

44. Learn to play a musical instrument (piano, violin, guitar)

45. Win a money bet

46. ​​Take dance classes (tango, ballroom, salsa)

47. Make art

48. Hitchhike

49. Travel with a backpack for several weeks in unfamiliar places and cities

50. Pack your things and go to an unknown destination for a couple of days

51. Swim with dolphins

52. Live in another country for a few months.

53. Make a movie

54. Take part in some TV project

55. Knit a scarf

56. Create your dream home

57. Cook the most delicious meal of your life for your loved ones

58. Bake a cake for someone special.

59. Live in the forest for a few days

60. Visit the desert

61. Live 4 seasons in 4 different countries

62. Read a book on a topic that has never interested you.

63. Volunteer at a hospital or nursing home

64. Fly a kite

65. Spend the night in a haystack

66. Call the support service (Internet, water delivery, taxi) and thank them for their work

67. Try being vegetarian for a month.

68. Try being vegan

69. Try a raw food diet

70. Make some origami figures and give them to strangers

71. Conquer your biggest fear

72. Travel by sea

73. Tell your 10 friends and acquaintances about your list and encourage them to create the same one

75. Experience the power of meditation

76. Take part in some socially important movement

77. Visit Japan during cherry blossom season

78. Bury the hatchet with all those with whom you quarreled in the past.

79. Organize a picnic

80. Do something completely crazy and different from you.

81. Travel first class

82. Hit ten with a dart in darts

83. Visit a volcano

84. Fly a helicopter

85. Have dinner with someone you've only dreamed of being with.

86. Tell your parents you love them

87. Take a cruise

88. Try being a waiter for a month

89. Fall in love (better more than once)

90. Be in love for a long time

91. Organize the most romantic date of your dreams

92. Visit a castle in Scotland

93. Change the world

94. Help someone in need

95. Learn sign language

96. Look at the Mona Lisa at the Louvre

97. Participate in a costume party

98. Win some competition

99. Learn to wake up at 5 am

100. Have at least three children.

In moments when you are bored and caught up in routine, do something from your list and you will fill your life with bright impressions and remind yourself that “I” is much more important than “WE”.

About the author:
Worked for several years in large Western corporations (KPMG, ADIDAS, WEATHERFORD). Currently I am working on several online projects (the main focus is the creation and promotion of online games). By my example I try to show that anyone can become a profitable entrepreneur.
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