Signs that you are living wrong. Signs that you are living wrong When you realize that you are not living your life

Is reincarnation possible? Scientists and esotericists have been arguing about this for centuries. But scientist and writer Steven Bankarz is confident that the transmigration of souls is quite real from a scientific point of view. In his articles, he identifies four signs by which one can determine how long a soul has existed.

Reincarnation is the belief that a person’s soul can move into another body after death. There is quite a lot of evidence for the possibility of reincarnation. But how can an ordinary person understand, without resorting to scientific research and experiments, whether he has already lived on earth and how old his soul is?

Here are four signs that your soul is much older than your body.

You see right through people, “read” them like books

From an early age you noticed that you only had to look at a person to understand something about their life. And a conversation of a couple of minutes was enough for you to find out what the person is like, whether he is happy, what worries him.

It seems to you that you have a program inside you that is capable of reading information about the people around you. Somehow you know that people are mostly similar to each other and to “read” them you just need to know a few dozen personality archetypes.

If your soul is thousands of years old, then in past lives you had to interact with a large number of completely different people. So in this life it is not a problem for you to create a psychological portrait of your interlocutor after just a couple of minutes of communication. You don’t have to think long about whether you should trust this or that person, whether he’s lying, and what’s on his mind. Your intuition handles such questions masterfully.

You know how to enjoy solitude

You are able to enjoy time spent with yourself. Not because you are a sociopath or like being alone. But because for some reason you already know better than others that time spent in solitude, for example, stargazing, is much more interesting than shopping in a shopping center.

You are not a hermit at all. You just don't need to communicate with people just to maintain your own self. You do not feel the need for the approval of your friends, do not seek evaluation of your successes, and do not need recognition. This is because you already know everything about yourself. Since you are not coming to earth for the first time, you do not need experiments to understand what you want, what lifestyle suits you and what environment you will be comfortable in.

You don't like the way this world works

You are not happy with what is happening in this world. In all your lives, you have seen enough - wars, the stupidity of people, barbarism, tyranny, immorality, and so on. When you come into this world, you seem to try to stay away from it. Sometimes you feel like you are a lion in a flock of foolish sheep. You don’t like the way everything works in this life and the way the world is developing. School, college, work, family holidays, events, traditions... You participate in all of this, but you understand that all this is not organized in the best way. You often think that people act unreasonably.

You are not interested in talking about the weather, sports, movies or politicians. Much closer to you are conversations about dreams, self-development, spirituality, animal rights, and so on.

You know how to influence people

From early childhood, you were considered smart beyond your years. And it’s not about school performance and knowledge. Sometimes you said things that shocked adults. You have a philosophical outlook on life. Even those older than you turn to you for advice. You know the value of patience, confidence, honesty and more.

Those things that people realize within 10-20 years, you can understand in a year. This is because you went through all this in past lives, and now it is easier for you than others to assess situations and cope with problems.

If all this is to some extent about you, then most likely this is not your first life on our planet. We wish you good luck and don't forget to press the buttons and

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We often meet people who are depressed almost all the time. No matter what they do, everything turns out wrong. Often they are humiliated or circumstances are such that they have to endure. They are very vulnerable and often susceptible to outside influence. The answer to this question will be given by an article that will tell you why people experience these situations.

The feeling of fatigue that constantly accumulates in our lives over the years becomes more and more like tightly packed luggage that is scary to open - you can’t pack it back as it was, and the final destination of the journey is still far away. And we live with this feeling as if it were our due, not realizing the natural uninvitedness of such a neighborhood.Every year we acquire new worries, new problems and we no longer distinguish which of them are ours and which ones we have shouldered due to our sacrificially naive carelessness. Over time, apathy grows with the growing feeling of fatigue and soon the cute laziness, whether we like it or not, increasingly lingers in our lives as an uninvited guest, occupying useful living space in cozy, uninvited company.

This intrusive proximity bothers us, but we tolerate it, because kicking us out is bad manners. We have been taught that we must endure. But no one ever explained why and what exactly we should tolerate and what we should drive out of the yard and slam the gates. There comes a time when what was recently given and done easily is now a feat according to schedule.

Of course, everything can be attributed to age, workload and other superficial reasons. It may seem to us that some event, some person, some circumstances are to blame. But in fact, the reason is much deeper. After all, before there were also troubles, misunderstandings, disappointments and defeats. One of the beautiful features of our life is that they always exist, at any stage of our life - they are part of our experience, which is especially vivid in contrasts. But now it seems to us that before we had more strength, we were younger, more carefree, etc. To some extent - yes. But an important part of this magical “before” was actually that we were actively learning about OUR life.

Yes, there have always been those who constantly and systematically intervened in it, who stubbornly insisted on certain postulates, given standards, rules and diversity of “dos and don’ts.” We are accustomed to boundaries and limitations to a much greater extent than to our own path, responsibility for it, our decisions, and for setting life priorities. In reality, our annoying “companions” are not evil that needs to be fought.

More precisely... there is no need to fight them. Yes, there is no typo or typo here. This is the same as removing symptoms without eliminating the cause of the disease. All our medicine is symptomatic. Yes, no one actually treats anyone, they relieve obvious, painful symptoms, but no one treats the cause. Our medicine cuts a person into parts and does not consider him as a holistic, unified being, where everything is interconnected with everything else and does not exist separately.

It's the same with our life. Without searching for the causes, relieving symptoms is only a temporary measure, so do not be surprised by the quick return of “old friends”. Our body is very wise, it is a finely tuned mechanism that has its own extensive signaling system, which is always tuned to us and our needs, unlike us, unfortunately, we are tuned to anything and anyone, but not to ourselves, our body and internal balance.

We lose and exchange ourselves easily and carelessly. Constant fatigue, apathy, laziness and depression are a protective reaction of the body that signals that... you are NOT living your life. The atavistic paradox of human nature is that people live someone else’s life more willingly than their own, inventing for themselves (or already accepting someone else’s) good reasons for this. But - without supporting any reason in favor of your own, one and only life. For your own benefit. Arranging your priorities for anyone and anything, just not for yourself. Selflessly sacrificing yourself, your life “in the name of”, “for”, “because”, “but I can’t do otherwise”... - this is just a game of hide and seek with your life, which inexorably turns into a conveyor of cliches, norms, dogmas, programs, stereotypes, other people's opinions and reactions, fears, inertia and... the eternal search. But there is no need to look for anything, everything is in ourselves.

It is enough to show respect and attention to yourself, do not be afraid to ask about your needs, take time for yourself, your abandoned, suppressed, hidden emotions and desires, do not be afraid to make a choice, do not hesitate to defend your opinion, show your feelings, insist on your own, that , what is right and necessary for yourself, hear your inner voice, see the numerous signs and signals that are constantly present around you. Scary? Yes, it's scary.

It is scary to take into account yourself more than to take others into account. From early childhood, we were diligently instilled with precise postulates of what is permitted, which we selflessly and consistently instilled further in our children. We are accustomed to the feeling of numerous frames and restrictions.

Their sudden disappearance can cause attacks of panic: “What should we do now?” How to live with this ability to be free?... Our criteria of life, concepts, perceptions and ideas are, of course, important and necessary, but if you observe children without prejudice, you understand how many of them are artificially created, acquired unconditionally, undeniably and have grown into our lives, into our cells and atoms.

We feel uncomfortable, but we bend, push ourselves under them, because “everyone lives like this” or we just want to correspond to these “everyone”, because we were taught to “conform”, but were not taught to resist, were not instilled with the skills and abilities to be ourselves, they were not taught to love, they were not told about the power and goodness of love, about honor and self-esteem, which should be one of the main measures of our actions. Because the ability to respect oneself gives rise to the ability to respect in a person, as a principle of interaction in society.

Time is changing, it requires us, our changes, our dynamism, our participation, and we... do not have time. We are mired in other people's lives, we have taken upon ourselves a lot of far-fetched, our own and not our own problems and tasks; for a long time we have not distinguished where our experience, lesson, our situation is, and where it is someone else's. We excel in the skills of immersion and bogging down, we skillfully block and slow down ourselves and just as skillfully - others.

- We “hang” on conflicting environments and feelings within us - inherent, natural input and acquired, forced data.

And then we wait and suffer when someone comes and restarts, reboots our “system”, being habitually oriented towards expecting something from someone, or from something - an amazing miracle, while continuing to invariably live in a crystallized, but in an “appropriate”, “like everyone else’s” way of life, supporting their lives with other people’s crutches. We were carefully and skillfully instilled with many lengthy judgments about “egoism”, sweeping under it everything that is not a herd, everything that is not “like people”, not “like everyone else”, depersonalizing and devaluing a person in front of himself and his own, unique life. Because it’s so convenient for the masses, so convenient for those who control them, so convenient for everyone who is used to manipulating, everyone who is used to shifting responsibility onto other people’s shoulders, who likes to be significant at someone else’s expense, who has a lot of ambitions and a minimum of productive and creative deeds.

This is convenient for those who have more claims and consumerism than respect and giving, who glorify unfreedom and are proud of their devotion to ever-changing values ​​and dogmas, unspoken fears and poorly hidden dependence on other people’s opinions and judgment of the faceless “what people will say.” The word “egoism” itself has long gained multitasking popularity for its vagueness, substitutable flexibility and highly adaptive ability to integrate into any uncomfortable form of behavior that violates the usual way of life.

And those few who decide to live their lives, who suddenly, having realized the value and primary significance of their lives, decide, make the choice to find themselves in their own lives - do not go unnoticed by the watchful, withering eye of the “righteous public”, are angrily condemned, as if it were directly their personal, bloody matter, a personal insult, a slap in the face of their social “normality”.

How many people can say that they feel, what they were born for, that they do what they do, love what they do, who find satisfaction and joy in their world? How many people are filled with their own life, how many joyful and positive people? How many people are there who don’t need surrogate drivers for their implementation? How many are able to remain themselves, be sincere, be friendly? How many are able to distinguish between the beneficially instilled sacrifice and the pure call of the heart?

How many distinguish where they are technically used, and they condone this, and where - this is their sincere choice, in which case it does not deplete or take away strength, because pure intention is always replenished and supported from Above, does not steal our strength, but only strengthens them? How many people enter relationships with the intention of giving rather than receiving? And how many are able to give without presenting dividends for their “works”? But these are the people who are most feared and shunned. These are the people who are protected the least.

It is precisely these people who are easy to hurt, because their openness is attractive and reveals frailty, fed by the conveyor belt qualities of an obedient crowd. But these are the people everyone expects in their lives and are afraid to be such themselves. So where can they come from if they don’t become those desirable, warm, needed, loving, sincere, courageous, capable of respecting themselves, and therefore their neighbors?... Scary? Why? After all, how quickly can the world, which everyone blames and curses, be transformed if at the same time, at least 20% of the conscious population of the planet wants in themselves - not in someone else! - bright changes.

They will decide to shine and not block the light, to give at least as much as they consume, to be grateful, able to love and not hide their feelings, not to be afraid to make a choice, to value and respect themselves and their life more than they are able to value and respect it other.

Your life is a Gift. A gift to you. Are you pleased when your sincere, heartfelt gift, which you carefully and reverently selected for a specific person, after a very short time... is given by him to another? I have never met such a person. But that's what you do with your life. And what happens? Few people understand what to do with their lives, their

A gift, and how to use it intelligently and fully, and here you also gave him your life, pathetically sacrificing it. He doesn’t know what to do on his own, and even more so what to do with your “victim.” And if she does know, then she will certainly find it not yours, but her own understanding and use. But in the end, you accuse the “generously gifted” person of you of a non-existent crime, and cannot forgive him for not appreciating your gift and not being grateful.

Sorry... but you just got rid of your life by placing it on top of someone else's life. Everyone, I emphasize this word - everyone - is given life, their own, unique life! Not for “re-gifting”. Everyone has this gift. Everyone is given their own unique characteristics, their own unique tools for realizing their life path, their goals and objectives. But as soon as we gain access to conscious existence, we very quickly, according to a well-established pattern, along a given trajectory, completely voluntarily “write out an indulgence” for our life, selflessly donating it to someone who is equally generously gifted from Above, the same as Each of us has a single, unique life, with our own unique experience, unique tasks, characteristics, physical, psycho-emotional, spiritual.

We have become so successful in this irresponsibility for our lives that we nurture and glorify this imaginary, albeit completely voluntary, sacrifice, while demanding a return bonus, gratitude, attention and approval for it. But in fact, 90% of the generally accepted demands for sacrifice or its demonstration are typical escape. From yourself, your life and the realization of your potential. Yes, someone was born to sacrifice themselves and their lives, selflessly and selflessly. And such people make history, even as a small drop in the ocean, regardless of whether history knows about them or not. Because true, sincere sacrifice does not require recognition from the crowd and a name carved through the ages as a reward. This is the feeling of your path exactly like this. Live your life, you were born for this.

No one came here by mistake, whether their life makes sense to you or not, and whether it fits into your idea of ​​what someone's life should be like or not. Everyone has something that is unique to him, and only he can weave his unique thread into the universal fabric. Do not tangle the threads, do not weave knots, do not create jams and redrawn, patched scars.

No matter how scary you are, no matter how confusing and incomprehensible everything seems in your life or with your life, you have two invaluable, reliable, finely tuned tools. Heart. Your most faithful friend, your intuition, conscience and advisor.If you don’t know what to do, how to act, pay attention to how you feel about it. The solution will be on the surface. It's a matter of small things - your readiness and determination. Sincerity. Sincerity is the best measure, the most reliable indicator.

Most people die

never being born

(Erich Fromm)

Hello,

Dear readers and guests of my blog!

This publication is somewhat different from all previous ones.

It is about a life that is slipping away or has already slipped away.

With this article I begin a series of articles about life crises,where I will talk most about the midlife crisis.

Here are some typical questions that my clients often ask me:

  • “How to change your life? It seems that you do a lot of things, you want everything to be as good as possible, but everything returns to the old way. But in this direction there is stagnation. Monotony in life. And some kind of hopelessness... as if I was living someone else’s life”;
  • “I know that I can live differently, but I don’t know what this “different” means...”;
  • “My own life is slipping away, and I am not living my life,, And ... .»;
  • “I have an emptiness in my life. Why do I always let it take over me and let my life pass me by..."
  • "? and how to do this?

It seems to me that all these experiences are well reflected in a line from Hermann Hesse’s novel “Klein and Wagner”:

“...and many thought for a moment and became sad about the fact that discord and discord reigned between their lives and their impulses, that their life was not a dance, but exhaustion under weights, weights that they had shouldered upon themselves, in essence, themselves.”

I think many people are familiar with this.

It's familiar when...

  • ...when you live for perhaps many years with a persistent feeling that life is not going at all the way it should go;
  • ...when you wake up at 4 am with your heart beating loudly and a burning thought: “What’s wrong? So what should we do?”;
  • ...when the thought: “something needs to be changed, and it’s too late,” is spinning in your head not just every day, but every minute.

And if she is not in consciousness, then somewhere in the backyard, gnawing and gnawing at the soul, and constantly disturbing from the very depths of your being.

It’s paradoxical, but in appearance everything even seems very decent and successful: family, home, work, in general, good income, friends, connections, and, thank God, everything is fine so far.

We can say that life is a success, and if not wealth, then there is prosperity, but...

But something is wrong. Something is missing. The emptiness in life grows and grows.

There are some answers here:

Many people mistakenly believe that there is not enough money, things, connections, pleasures, entertainment, etc. But as soon as there are more of them, the dead end and emptiness are felt again.

Then many hide behind the phrase:

“Man is designed in such a way that he always lacks something” and they continue to live the same way as they lived, but again they stumble upon.

Over the years, for many, this impulse, this deep-seated demand for life changes, gradually subside, they get used to their situation and live out of habit.

Others indulge in serious things: alcohol, drugs, pleasure. Even more money, even more pleasures.

Still others are immersed in everyday life with its worries, affairs, etc.

This everyday life is addictive, becomes something of an outlet, not very cozy and pleasant, but very necessary and, in the end, even familiar and tolerable.

The fourth ones begin to really change their lives.

But all their actions to change their lives are based on an erroneous foundation: “If I bring a lot of new things into it, then I will change it.”

Traveling, trips to other countries, changing jobs and changing places of residence, outside relationships, another family, extreme sports, etc.

But time passes, a person cools down and again finds himself in the sleepy embrace of the monotony of life and the question scratching in the soul:

"What to do? How to change your life?

But it turns out that changes in external life are not enough.

To truly change your life, you need some special impulse, some inner feeling of renewal, some experience of novelty, coming not from external circumstances, but from the inner world

In this publication I will list the main signs that

  • That a person does not live his own, not full, not authentic life.
  • That his own life is passing by, that he does not follow his path, does not contribute to his destiny.
  • That his fate has lost its real meaning, and he has long been haunted by monotony in life.

I believe that these signs can be considered as a test for the presence of crisis phenomena in life.

If you find 2 or more of these signs, then you should think about it and start taking appropriate measures.

So…

Signs Togo, What

“I’m not living my life” or “I’m living someone else’s life”

1. The feeling that “...everything is in place, but something is wrong...”

A persistent or only periodically appearing feeling that life is not going the way it should go.

Not according to the scenario, not the way you would like. You feel this dissatisfaction, it has long made a nest inside you.

Life passes you by, but you have already come to terms with it or are on the way to it.

This is perhaps the most important sign.

It’s as if your soul is telling you about a crisis, gradually, and often directly, telling you that something needs to be changed.

At the same time, you really don’t know how to change, how to find the meaning of life.

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2. Unloved job that steals time

85% of your life is spent working. At the same time, you don’t like it, or you consider it more or less tolerable, but it takes up a huge part of what belongs to you.

You're putting yourself out there in a job that you really don't like.

But you endure. And if they tell you: “Drop her, find a new one!”, then you actively defend yourself, answering:

“It’s easy to say: “find”! How will I live, how will I feed my family? There is at least some stability here! And there? There is only one unknown. Suddenly, for example,..."

Read about patience that kills , and about false optimism .

3. False hope for a new life, in a new place

On the other hand, you are periodically visited by a saving thought: “to give up everything and move to another city or even to another country.”

You believe that moving to a different life, a different home, a different job, and maybe even a different family will change your life.

You will become yourself, finally finding the true meaning of life and a feeling of satisfaction.

But at the same time, deep down in your soul, you understand well that neither a new apartment, nor a new car, nor new clothes, nor another trip and vacation, nor a new acquaintance will change anything.

And if they change, then only the outer side.

4. Inert environment

You are surrounded by the wrong people.

Among your acquaintances there are few or no people who would be in tune with you, share your interests and understand you as much as possible.

5. Decaying interests

Gradually, indifference to what previously aroused your strong interest grows in you.

Your interests become shallow, they become fewer and fewer, they are superficial and do not captivate you as much as before

(“I have now become stingier in my desires. My life! Or did I dream about you?” S. A. Yesenin).

6. Dead hobby

Your hobby, to which you previously devoted a lot of time and effort with pleasure, has long since died out or is about to do so.

7. False hobbies

But you have a couple of hobbies that are very similar to hobbies.

For example, you passionately devote yourself to reading books, watching movies, endlessly surfing the Internet, shopping, making money, extreme sports, gambling...

In general, everything that captivates you, captivates you so much that you forget about everything and everyone around you.

This may be your hobby, but it is not a hobby or even an outlet in the abyss of life’s problems - these are painful pseudo-hobbies that persistently lead you away from real life.

Their only thing is to suppress the thought that your life is not the same, and everything in it is not the same, and that you need to change and take a different path.

Any such pseudo-hobbies work to prevent the feeling of emptiness in life and smooth out its monotony.

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8. Weakening sense of purpose

You stopped setting high goals for yourself and achieving them. You are strong and quality criteria. You have become satisfied with average results.

9. The habit of living by inertia

Your dreams, which once fueled your and your ambitions, are gradually fading away and you are getting used to everyday life, and any changes are already alarming you.

10. Bad habits

Alcohol and/or other intoxicants, as well as your refrigerator and its contents, have become an integral part of your life.

11. Life “for someone”

You live for someone. For the sake of children, husband/wife, parents, friends, colleagues... in general, for the sake of someone, but not for yourself.

And if it were not for this or these, for whom you live, then you would have long ago lost the last meaning and were left alone with the emptiness of life.

You live by habit. You're just doing what you've always done, often without even realizing it.

12. Thoughts about death

The thought that “...my life has disgusted me and I am disgusted with myself...” (L.N. Tolstoy) visits you more and more often.

And the worst thing is that it brings with it another thought: that everything can be completed very quickly, on your own, and this thought even brings some relief and hope, because you think that “the door is always open.”

If you find some of them, then you shouldn’t despair.

In fact, as soon as you begin to think about the fact that your life is eluding you, about how to find the meaning of life, then you are already on the way to renewal, because awareness of the need for changes is the first step towards these changes

That's all for now.

Now you know what the meaning of the statements is: “I’m not living my life” and “I’m living someone else’s life”

Let's talk about why it is so difficult to change our lives, and what always prevents us from doing this.

Every moment in our life matters because our life is a fragile thing. Anyone who has lost someone significant in their life understands this. Life is not long enough to waste it on false values. The ability to go down the wrong path is a luxury. So how do you know that you are still following the path that you think is right? How do you know you haven't gone astray?

1. Most of the decisions you made were made by someone else for you.

There are people who live their entire lives as if on the default setting, not realizing that they can change the settings themselves. Don't be one of them!

Try to live your own life so that in 10 years you will have something to tell someone. If you have enough unique, interesting stories that aren't "I got drunk and pissed on my ex," you're living a decent life. Everyone has a sparkle in their soul. Some people literally stew it in infancy, but some leave it until the end of their days. These people, as a rule, are remembered for a long time.

In order to live a wonderful, individual life, all you have to do is not look back at other people. You can listen, but you must make decisions yourself, after thinking carefully. Some dudes believe that they make all the important decisions on their own, but in reality they are just repeating what other people say. Think carefully, put the decision through yourself, understand whether you like it or not.

2. Do only what is safe

Many people never do anything that involves serious risk. Playing your life on safe settings is the biggest risk you can take. Do you remember that Saltykov-Shchedrin had a fairy tale about a wise minnow (precisely with an “and” to give you an idea), who spent his whole life in a hole, but saw nothing except this very hole?

Absence of risk presupposes minimal self-development, minimal movement forward. You need to change, you need to adapt, then you will be of some use. If you seriously think that every failure ruins your chance of success, then you are deeply wrong.

3. Take the easy way out

We had an article about why. Nothing in life comes easy. Nothing! Or rather, everything that makes life worth living. Why do many rich people manage their property so stupidly: bathe in expensive champagne and buy gold iPhones? Because they got their wealth without labor, so they don’t value it. Any thing that you put some effort into becomes valuable to you.

Our society often places an emphasis on "quick fixes" because it's the perfect way to sell people crap. For example, diet pills and muscle gain pills. They do not work! It’s hard to admit that you just need to work out more and eat right to build beautiful muscles and not be fat, but instead we either ignore the problem or eat all sorts of crap that “should help.” Why? Because it's simple.

4. The obstacle is everything you see!

The difference between an obstacle and an opportunity is how you look at it. When you see, instead of one small problem, one big and a bunch of small ones, you are exaggerating. Keep your nose up and that's it! Don’t think that all that has befallen you is problems. Some of them are not problems. If a situation confuses you, just stop making a problem out of it.

5. You work hard, but still make no progress.

To achieve success and maintain happiness in life, you must focus your attention on the right things and go in the right direction. Every person has limitations either in resources or time. This is the norm. What matters is how you use your resources. Try to do the right job, not a bunch of different things. Don't confuse the concept of "busy" and "productive."

6. You have too many things started, but almost none finished.

We are judged by what we finish, not by what we started. No one will judge or appreciate those things that are left undone, that you haven’t finished and that you haven’t even started. Do you know why? Because no one really needs such things and, most likely, only you know about them. In all walks of life, every person, unless he is lazy, will appreciate the dedication and passion with which you do something.

7. You're too busy to talk to people.

Never be so busy that you don’t have enough time to meet and talk with different people outside of business. The happiest moments of our lives are somehow connected with relationships. If you're too busy for that, then you're TOO busy.

Sometimes we forget that besides us and our affairs, there is something else in the world with which it’s time for us to interact. People who we think will be with us for a long time may leave tomorrow, and that’s when we need their shoulder and their help.

8. The people you give time to don't give it to you.

Wrong things happen when you let . Don't give too much time to people who can't do the same for you. Don't give time to people who are dating you just because they need it now. Know your worth, know who you are and what you deserve. Surround yourself with those who will support you when it rains, not when the sun shines. During warm days, everyone can share your joy with you, but not everyone will support you when you feel bad.

9. You play your part in the dramatic play of life.

Drama comes into our lives when you create it out of nowhere or communicate with those who created it for you. Don't let drama, hate, ignorance and negativity hold you back from the laudable attempt to better yourself. Be an example of pure existence, stop being the representative of the student drama club. Ignore negative people, you shouldn’t throw them out completely, let them be a painful reminder for you, but don’t listen to them. If you hear from them that you are living wrong, know that you are on the right path, and they are simply jealous of you, because they themselves cannot do it.

It's never too late to change your life, to do this you only need one thing - to want it badly.

Moreover, if you feel that you are living not your own life, but someone else’s life. Sometimes you want to free yourself from problems, straighten your shoulders and deeply breathe into yourself the air of freedom, freedom from unnecessary obligations, negative events and circumstances blocking desired goals, to throw off mental attachments and mental viruses of other people’s beliefs, values ​​and intentions.

But the more you want to break out of this circle, the stronger the embrace of other people’s addictions and events tightens on you, pulling you even deeper into the whirlpool of a joyless everyday life, only occasionally diluting it with bursts of joyful emotions and impressions. A person runs around in a circle of false goals imposed on him, not knowing how to break out of the captivity of the alien wheel of fate. Seemingly prosperous people who have a job, money, family, friends, do not feel completely happy. Something is wrong, something bothers them, something doesn’t give and prevents them from being truly happy.

Don't be lazy - take yours

But the blocking obstacles and barriers that are inside us provoke us to actions, deeds, emotions and thoughts that shape our reality and do not allow us to raise our heads and discover all the delights of life. Because the world around us gives us exactly what we give to it.

On the way, the wrong people constantly come across, the wrong events happen, the wrong circumstances arise. Everything goes wrong, and no matter what a person does, no matter how hard he tries to fix everything, start over, everything repeats itself over and over again. All that remains is to either come to terms with it, or, if there is not enough internal strength, to begin to degrade, plunging into vices such as depression, alcohol, drugs, illness, etc.

Don't build barriers

Barriers are our life attitudes:

  • be like everyone else;
  • don't do that;
  • don't get close;
  • don't be yourself;
  • don't stand out;
  • do not belong;
  • don't be happy and...
  • do not express emotions, etc.
  • as well as various:
    • fears,
    • anxiety,
    • depression,
    • anger,
    • greed,
    • envy,
    • resentment,
    • jealousy,
    • guilt,
    • inferiority,
    • lack of self-acceptance, intentions and beliefs,
    • inappropriate actions and behavior,
    • negative parental programming,
    • internal contradictions,
    • self-punishment
    • psychotraumatic experience,
    • psychic attachments,
    • mental viruses and false values ​​and goals,
    • imposed on us from the outside and drowning out the properties and qualities of our “True Self”, through the expression of which it is possible to find real happiness and well-being in life.

Only happiness and prosperity

It is to be happy and prosperous that is the real purpose of our life, our real life scenario.

Our immortal soul, traveling from one physical life to another, accumulates experience of certain events and lives lived. And depending on what she has accumulated in previous incarnations, she draws up a certain program, a life scenario for this life, by implementing which, a person can correct the mistakes of the past and not make them in the present, improving and moving forward along the path of evolutionary development.

The Purpose, Mission and Meaning of any person’s life should not be looked far, as if it were a secret behind 7 seals. This truth is simple and the same for everyone. It lies in understanding, accepting and correcting in ourselves those properties and qualities that prevent us from finding our own, given from above, true life scenario, following that life path, by implementing which we will live happily and prosperously, maximally expressing our essence, receiving from This is a great pleasure, bringing maximum benefit to yourself, society and the universe.

Live easily and happily

All barriers and obstacles are hidden under the surface of our consciousness.

Our EGO, the logical mind, is the conductor of our internal composite, consisting of various properties, qualities, abilities, programs, states, beliefs and values ​​that guide it along the trajectories of movement in this world. The roads we choose are influenced by our internal desires and thoughts, which are activated within us by receiving information from the outside. And depending on what is activated in us, what we are filled with, our EGO directs the vector of our attention there, considering this to be our choice.

If our internal set, the so-called program composite, for the most part, consists of related, unique, true natural energies, then, by expressing them, a person will move through life easily and happily, he will be accompanied by luck, the necessary event series and favorable circumstances, because, realizing his true orientation, he will be filled, receive and give what he is really predisposed to and for which he was created.

After birth, human development occurs along the path of filling its internal content. The human psyche, like a sponge, absorbs information and adapts to external circumstances, such as parental programming, environmental influences: kindergarten, school, society, street, etc.

What a person gets from this is not always useful. Sometimes the psyche is imprinted by alien, blocking, limiting, interfering programs that provoke false goals and values ​​that lead a person away from his true path. A person begins to live a life that is not his own, realizing scenarios that are alien in energy and meaning, which, due to their alienness, cause rejection and rejection of many components of real life. A person’s life force goes to other consumers, and not to those for whom it was originally intended.

But everything can be fixed if you know how to do it. If you know the access codes, the keys that open secret doors into the human psyche, into those areas of the unconscious where those parts of us are located that negatively affect our lives, leading us away from the true path. These parts grow into a person’s spiritual body, adjusting his life direction with their emotions, thoughts and desires.

Certain knowledge and practical application of the latest methods and psycho-information technologies of a multidirectional spectrum of action will allow any person to consciously change their life for the better, quickly, effectively and efficiently find, transform and remove all barriers blocking the road to a happy life, return and find the true script, mission and meaning of your life.

Sincerely, A.V. Donskikh.
Psychotherapist NLPt, psychotechnologist.